Bringing Joy to Every Child: How to Spread Kindness and Support During the Holiday Season
- Samantha Kilburn

- Dec 1, 2025
- 3 min read
The holiday season often brings images of laughter, gifts, and warm family gatherings. For many children, it is a time filled with excitement and joy. Yet, not every child experiences the care-free magic of winter. Some face challenges that make the holidays difficult or even painful. Families struggling with financial hardship, family conflicts, hospitalization or childhood illness, or inadequate living conditions can find the season overwhelming. This post explores these challenges with a hopeful perspective and offers practical ways to bring light to children and families in need. By understanding these struggles and taking action, we can help make the holidays brighter for everyone.
Understanding the Challenges Some Children Face During the Holidays
Financial Hardship and Lack of Toys
Many families cannot afford toys or gifts during the holidays. The pressure to provide presents can be stressful, especially when basic needs like food and shelter are uncertain. Children in these families may feel left out or disappointed when they see peers receiving gifts. Similarly, children in the hospital, foster care, or group homes may not receive many gifts or have someone to play with them.
Family Problems and Divorces
The holidays can highlight family tensions or the absence of loved ones. The disruption of family traditions can make the season feel less joyful and more confusing.
Barriers to Heating and Warmth
Winter brings cold temperatures that can be dangerous for families without reliable heating. Some homes are cramped and poorly insulated, making it hard to stay warm. This physical discomfort adds to the emotional strain of the season. Unhoused families in cold places may struggle and get very sick.

Ways to Spread Kindness and Support This Holiday Season
Despite these challenges, the holiday season offers many opportunities to bring joy and hope. Small acts of kindness can have a big impact on children and families facing difficulties.
Volunteer Opportunities Through Volunteer Connect
Volunteer Connect is a wonderful platform that connects people with local volunteer opportunities. It makes it easy to find ways to help in your community, whether you have a few hours or more time to give. Here are some meaningful ways to get involved:
Prepare a Home-Cooked Meal
Cooking and sharing a meal can provide comfort and show care. Places like the Ronald McDonald House sometimes accept home cooked meals, depending on the location. Unhoused shelters often accept (and need) food.
Donate Gifts to a Children’s Hospital or Facility
Hospitals often have wish lists for children who must spend the holidays in care. Donating toys or books can brighten a child’s day and bring smiles during a difficult time. Donating handwritten cards to nursing homes, hospice facilities, and veteran's hospitals can also be a kind way to spread joy.
Spread Kindness in Small Ways
Simple gestures like a smile, delivering baked goods, or helping neighbors with decorations can spread the holiday cheer.
How You Can Make a Difference
Organize a Gift Drive
Gather friends, family, or coworkers to collect new toys, books, or warm clothing. Coordinate with local charities or hospitals to ensure your donations reach children who need them most.
Support Local Shelters and Charities
Many organizations rely on donations and volunteers during the holidays. Check Volunteer Connect for opportunities near you and consider donating time or resources.
Educate Yourself and Others
Understanding the struggles some families face helps build empathy. Share stories and information to raise awareness and encourage more people to get involved.
Blog or Write About Struggles
Being open about struggles during the holidays can raise awareness and foster a sense of belonging. Start blogging or writing on Substack.
Read Diverse Children's Books to your Children
EduAndYou has lists of diverse children's books to read to your kids, alongside book reviews. Exploring struggles, differences, and uniqueness is a great way to foster empathy and kindness.
Resist The Urge to Brag
You may have gotten the most expensive, shiny gift, but some kids didn't get anything. It is okay to talk about being grateful for your gifts, but do not shove it in other people's faces or brag about your families money.
The Power of Kindness During the Holidays
Every act of kindness, no matter how small, contributes to a more caring community. When we reach out to support children and families in need, we help create memories filled with hope and joy. The holiday season becomes a time not just for receiving but for giving in ways that truly matter.
By volunteering, donating, or simply spreading kindness, you can bring light to those who need it most. This December, consider how your actions can make a difference. Together, we can bring joy to every child and build stronger, more compassionate communities.




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